In order to show up in the player list (which you can consider to be an "active player" list) at http://itoysoldiers.com/users you need to gain at least one renown point. It's pretty easy to get the first one considering the nature of the site. You need to record or acknowledge one battle result. See! Simple. So if you have a battle you want to record go for it. If you registered 'cause you totally crushed one of your friends and THEY use the site and you want to get credit for the win then click on the "Acknowledge Battle" button on your buddy's battle.